just found out tat i lost my pendrive. great....
ok, so this was typed after the campfire...
cold shower. need to chill myself. trying to make sense of what's happening around me. changes in people, places, and time. Somehow, communication between human has become harder and harder. Or was it me being more and more repulsive to the human species?
It’s day 2 of the so-called leadership camp. Depending on people, there would b lots of opinion bout wats this 3 day 2 night is. Fundamentally, its just another school-based camp which the school says “will teach u good-for-nothing peas how to lead ppl”. To me, leadership cant b taught, it has to b earned. Not by how fast u can lead a team to accomplish a goal but rather by how u handle sudden arising problems. N I, am not one of them.
So they got u stuck here for days. With the ability to simply toy with you in whatever ways they found interesting and telling u that their action was intended to teach u how to lead. And by the end of the day, u’re sored form hair to toe nails and u’ll b wondering foolishly bout how should tat prank upgrade your leadership skill. The answer is simple, to be a leader, u must learn how to b a follower. 要领导别人就须被别人领导。Its as simple as that. The camp wont teach you how to lead, ok, maybe a few talks bout the basics but surely not telling wat to do when someone under ur command confessed to you and u have to drag him/her around cause he/she is hanging on ur jeans. The bottom line is, they’re stimulating u to become a good leader.
So why all the quarrel and suing the school for teen abusing? If u just cant take it, quit your post and go home to your pillow. Let a better person lead the crowd. End of story, no mess.
A change of perspective. Wat happens if you’re here because majority of the member’s vote happens to fall on you? And your ex says u cant quit because u’re the future of the petty organization? Well, tat changes everything doesn’t it?
The biggest difference between a good leader and a worse than osama leader is will. The level of will in a particular leader to ensure everything runs all right no matter how hard the situation is. Rain or shine, the mission has gotta be completed and all members wont hate you for life.
Which points to another direction. Is sacrificing more than others a crucial part in the check list of becoming a leader? The answer is simply no, the crowd wont recognize you as their leader nor bow to your command just because you payed homage to gods than others.
To be on the practical side, which one would u choose as the president of your organization?
A. One who works the hardest and does everything for the organization but isn’t capable of leading
B. One who is extremely capable of leading but rarely show up or done anything for the organization
C. Flip a coin
If u ignored the option C, it would surprise you tat how long of a time can a simple question like tat required you to pick one. Bottom line, a leader doesn’t have to b someone who is a hard-working geek who aims to become a leader.
So now ur’re suddenly a comitee and is in command of some hundred of people who probably wish u’re better off dead. What do you do? Simple, CARRY ON!
pictures will come later... and YES i've got all the pictures of day 1 and 2 with me... someone's gonna hate me... lol
